[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.tvb1.cz\/honba-za-dokonalosti\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.tvb1.cz\/honba-za-dokonalosti\/","headline":"Honba za dokonalost\u00ed","name":"Honba za dokonalost\u00ed","description":"Pokud si p\u0159ed ostatn\u00edmi rodi\u010di povzdechnete, \u017ee je va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b nesnesiteln\u00fd perfekcionista, dostane se v\u00e1m v\u00a0lep\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b shov\u00edvav\u00e9ho \u00fasm\u011bvu, nebo si poslechnete n\u011bco o vejtaz\u00edch","datePublished":"2025-03-02","dateModified":"2023-04-27","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.tvb1.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"tvb1.cz\n","url":"https:\/\/www.tvb1.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/774cfd57496a9f02284489749b4229073861faca9d8a66df7d65507a77c5d31f?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/774cfd57496a9f02284489749b4229073861faca9d8a66df7d65507a77c5d31f?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"tvb1.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.tvb1.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a294233_w2027_t1506111880.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.tvb1.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a294233_w2027_t1506111880.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.tvb1.cz\/honba-za-dokonalosti\/","about":["Vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed"],"wordCount":518,"articleBody":"Pokud si p\u0159ed ostatn\u00edmi rodi\u010di povzdechnete, \u017ee je va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b nesnesiteln\u00fd perfekcionista, dostane se v\u00e1m v\u00a0lep\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b shov\u00edvav\u00e9ho \u00fasm\u011bvu, nebo si poslechnete n\u011bco o vejtaz\u00edch a p\u0159edv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed se. Zat\u00edmco d\u011btsk\u00e9 zloben\u00ed a probl\u00e9my ve \u0161kole jsou \u010dast\u00fdm t\u00e9matem debat mezi rodi\u010di, u\u010diteli i odborn\u00edky, probl\u00e9my rodi\u010d\u016f punti\u010dk\u00e1\u0159\u016f se p\u0159ech\u00e1zej\u00ed m\u00e1vnut\u00edm ruky. Co ale po\u010d\u00edt, pokud touha va\u0161eho d\u00edt\u011bte po dokonalosti p\u0159esahuje \u00fanosn\u00e9 meze? Kdy\u017e jedni\u010dka bez hv\u011bzdi\u010dky nebo druh\u00e9 m\u00edsto v\u00a0sout\u011b\u017ei vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 z\u00e1chvaty vzteku a pl\u00e1\u010de? Kdy\u017e je jedno p\u0159et\u00e1hnut\u00ed na obr\u00e1zku d\u016fvodem k\u00a0hysterick\u00e9 sc\u00e9n\u011b? Jak nau\u010dit sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, \u017ee chyby a prohry k\u00a0\u017eivotu pat\u0159\u00ed stejn\u011b jako v\u00edt\u011bzstv\u00ed a \u00fasp\u011bchy?Z\u00e1kladem \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9 strategie je rozpoznat moment, kdy d\u011btsk\u00e1 touha po dokonalosti za\u010dne p\u0159esahovat \u00fanosnou mez. N\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011bti jsou od p\u0159\u00edrody sout\u011b\u017eiv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e jin\u00e9, cht\u011bj\u00ed b\u00fdt v\u017edy nejlep\u0161\u00ed, a nen\u00ed na tom nic \u0161patn\u00e9ho. Pokud ale va\u0161eho potomka ka\u017ed\u00e9 sebemen\u0161\u00ed selh\u00e1n\u00ed rozhod\u00ed na dlouh\u00e9 minuty, je na \u010dase jednat. Prvn\u00edm krokem je ujistit d\u00edt\u011b, \u017ee ho m\u00e1te po\u0159\u00e1d stejn\u011b r\u00e1di, a \u017ee se na n\u011bj kv\u016fli chyb\u00e1m nezlob\u00edte. Za perfekcionismem mnoh\u00fdch lid\u00ed se toti\u017e skr\u00fdv\u00e1 n\u00edzk\u00e1 sebed\u016fv\u011bra a pochyby o sob\u011b sama, a \u0159e\u0161en\u00edm je tak budov\u00e1n\u00ed zdrav\u00e9ho sebev\u011bdom\u00ed a d\u016fv\u011bry ve sv\u011bt a lidi. Uka\u017ete d\u00edt\u011bti, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd d\u011bl\u00e1 chyby. Mluvte s\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem o situac\u00edch, kdy jste vy ud\u011blali n\u011bjakou chybu, a jak jste ji napravili. D\u00edt\u011bti to dod\u00e1 sebed\u016fv\u011bru a pom\u016f\u017ee mu to vid\u011bt v\u011bci v\u00a0tom spr\u00e1vn\u00e9m sv\u011btle.Krom\u011b pr\u00e1ce na d\u011btsk\u00e9m sebev\u011bdom\u00ed a vztahu ke sv\u011btu byste m\u011bli zv\u00e1\u017eit i mo\u017enost, \u017ee perfekcionismus je znakem jin\u00e9 poruchy. Pokud tedy va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b vyvede z\u00a0m\u00edry i sebemen\u0161\u00ed nedokonalost nebo odchylka od dan\u00e9ho pl\u00e1nu, je na m\u00edst\u011b zv\u00e1\u017eit n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvu d\u011btsk\u00e9ho psychologa. M\u016f\u017ee se toti\u017e jednat nap\u0159\u00edklad o p\u0159\u00edznak Aspergerova syndromu, jedn\u00e9 z\u00a0forem autismu, nebo o jin\u00fd psychologick\u00fd probl\u00e9m. D\u011btsk\u00fd psycholog bude nav\u00edc d\u00edt\u011b sledovat dlouhodob\u011b, co\u017e v\u00e1m pom\u016f\u017ee p\u0159edej\u00edt v\u00e1\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00edm n\u00e1sledk\u016fm cel\u00e9ho probl\u00e9mu, jak\u00fdmi by mohly b\u00fdt v\u00a0budoucnu nap\u0159\u00edklad poruchy p\u0159\u00edjmu potravy v\u00a0honb\u011b za dokonalou postavou, nebo workoholismus.Ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b plat\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00fd d\u011btsk\u00fd perfekcionismus je probl\u00e9m, za kter\u00fd byste se nem\u011bli styd\u011bt, ale \u0159e\u0161it ho. Va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b i vy si to zaslou\u017e\u00edte.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.8\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Honba za dokonalost\u00ed","item":"https:\/\/www.tvb1.cz\/honba-za-dokonalosti\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]